Some days are better than others and I'm hopeful that one day ..... sooner rather than later, that I might start to get the hang of the whole 'three kids' gig.
My husband is an electrician and works on site, on jobs all over the Sydney/nsw area. His hours are so unpredictable, he is not usually home in the evenings to help me with the 'crazy hours' in our home. The crazy hour consists of homework for Taylah-benet, bathing the kids, dressing them, feeding them, then their bedtime routine, brushing their teeth, reading a story, prayers, then finally sleep time by about 7 - 7.30pm. Throw the baby and his routine in there! and I'm left stuck on a chair at 6pm feeding my baby his bottle {which takes a good 20mins} burping him and waiting, until he will let me put him down in his rocker without screaming his head off. each minute I'm stuck on this chair, I watch my two big kids left to their own mischievous devices as I quietly think to myself 'why did I ever think I could do this!'
I was beginning to get quite depressed come evening time, and each day I would phone my husband to try and find out what time he would be home and as soon as he would say 'a couple hours' I would start to feel depressed already! *not. coping*
So I enlisted my mothers help this week and have been staying at her home a couple of nights, while Kerry is away for work. I can't say how much I love my mother - and honestly all she has to do is hold the baby and it makes my evening so much less stressful. But, I have had a good week thanks to the much needed break/help. I know I have to face the music sooner or later, I am just hopeful it will hurry up and get a little easier.
As well as trying to get the hang of having three kids, I get crazy stressed out about my son Mathias. I have only ever met one other kid who I though matched him at his energy and down right craziness. He really is such a gorgeous little boy when he behaves - it's just getting him to behave that's the trick. He mirrors so much of our {the husband and I} behaviour, If we tell him off he just goes ahead and does it right back at us - with the added attitude of a three year old -
I am so conscious of the fact that how I behave determines how my children will behave and that it all begins with me and the daddy. After spending a few days at my mums, she thinks his naughty behaviour is all very much for my attention, and she says this because he is a completely different child when she is looking after him while I'm not there, but as soon as I arrive he puts his naughty hat on full steam ahead. I've had a suggestion to give him more one on one positive attention like sitting with him at the table to draw of play with play dough. If you have any ideas, please, share.