Friday, December 28, 2012

A Heart Full of Music

Last night we were lucky enough to go and see the new musical movie 'Les Miserables'

I grew up singing these songs watching the '10th Anniversary Concert' over and over, so after seeing the trailer it was a must see! and it was amazing.

I loved it so much, I love that it stayed true to the music. The performances from the actors was heart wrenching and added it's own quality. Hugh Jackman delivered such an amazing performance along with Anne Hathaway and the entire cast.

Eddie Redmayne did a great job playing the romantic hero Marius, But Michael Ball will always be my most favorite.


Wednesday, December 26, 2012

MERRY CHRISTMAS

The 'silly season' well and truly arrived and I have had such a great time in amongst all the crazy-ness. My Big girl turned 6 years old on the 12th and I can hardly believe she is six years old already. Kerry was away for work the week of her birthday so it was just me and the kids. I had asked Taylah what she would like for dinner on her birthday and she asked for McDonald's. So that's what we did, too easy!

We celebrated Christmas with my Family having dinner on Christmas eve at my aunties. It was such a hot day, the kids run around all day in their under ware or their swimmers. Water fights, sprinklers, food, and more food. In true Sydney style it began to rain and we saw bursts of lightening towards the evening as all the kids hustled around getting ready for their Nativity play.

Nativity Play Christmas Eve 2012
Each family performs an item in our Concert and the kids add extra items. Emma sung 'Skinny Love' and Kimball showed us his fart noise repertoire! After the nativity play we all gave our gifts then ate.

We came home and put our kids into bed, then it was straight onto Santa duty. Filling my kids stockings to place at the end of their bed, for them to find in the morning.

Christmas morning the kids slept in from the late night before, but first thing was first they emptied their stockings. I really loved spending Christmas morning with my little family I don't think we have ever done it before. We cooked up a feast for breakfast, skipped lunch and went straight to dinner at my mums house.

I Love Christmas. I love spending time with my crazy family, even though we all have our differences and disagreements, we can all come together to carry on traditions that have been in my family for years, and that I hope to carry on with my children.

For Christmas I got an ipad mini, which is kind of just a courtesy calling it that as I did buy it myself and I got it about 4 weeks before Christmas!? I'm not a very patient woman and I don't like surprises. I like to tell my husband what to buy me, or even better, I'll buy it myself.

For Kerry I brought him a new cologne  Paco Rabanne One Million which I love, I love the smell and I love that I choose one for him that he hasn't had before {And I really want Lady Million now!} and some clothes.

For Taylah-benet and Mathias we got remote control cars, Taylah's is a Barbie car and Mathia's is Lightning McQueen. They both love them and spent hours playing with them after. And Carter got a Little People Aeroplane.

Now we are gearing up to spend New Years in Cowra at my Caroline's new pad :)



Saturday, December 15, 2012

It a Party, a Rainbow Party!

Yesterday we celebrated Taylah-benet's 6th birthday with friends and family. BBQ lunch at a nearby park and a spectacular desert table to boot!

Although I helped put it all together {and paid for it :/ } the visionary talent behind it was my sister. She loves to do it, and she is good at it! So I asked her to design the table for me and we pieced it all together.

The colourful lollies, chocolate Oreos, fruit sticks, rainbow jelly, cake pops, and red velvet cupcakes, I was really happy to see it all come together so well.

I was a little nervous about making the birthday cake as my cake maker has moved country and couldn't be there, I just had to do my best and hope I didn't stuff it up. I was really happy with how it turned out, I have tried to make this layer cake recipe before and it was an epic fail. { I'll post a link to the recipe a little later } But it turned out great! I did a crumb icing with white chocolate ganache, I really liked this as you could hardly tell it was there between the layers and over the cake and it tastes so good! Then, I covered it with white fondant, a rolled icing which I had never tried before. And of course, a rainbow ribbon to finish it off.

The cakepops I made were chocolate orange, with cream cheese frosting, super white melts and 100's & 1000's sprinkled over them.

The rainbow invitations, bottle labels, buffet labels, chocolate labels, and thank you tags I purchased them from the amazing Li-Ann Scott of Ham & Pea, and printed off as many I wanted.

The coloured lollies in the seven jars are Sixlets, they are American candy, Chocolate. They don't really taste very good { they're not awful } but they are fabulous for all their colours. I got them from a shop in Bass Hill which stocks a whole lot of American candy { including dark chocolate m&m's! YUM! } they are sold in their separate colours.

All the party ware, plastic plates, salad bowls with lids, salad servers, knifes, forks napkins etc i got from Party ware supplies in Padstow,Arab rd, they have a fabulous amount of party ware I just love going there.

Taylah-benet had such a great day, the kids just played on the playground, everyone loved the desert table, the cake and the cake pops.

I really enjoyed putting the table together, it was really expensive, but didn't it look amazing!!

Now, Christmas!!!

Taylah-Benet's 6th 'Rainbow' Birthday Party Saturday 15th December 2012 - Blackmuscat Park, Chipping Norton








Wednesday, December 12, 2012

Six years old

Today is Taylah-benet's birthday and I can hardly believe that she is now six years old {I have a six year old people!!!} it didn't really hit me until this morning, I was sitting in the lounge with Carter and as soon asTaylah woke, she came straight out, stood at the top of the stairs and with the biggest smile said 'Mum, I'm six now!' As if she had gone though the transformation from a 5 year old into a 6 year old, in her sleep.

It kind of makes me sad, she is growing so quickly the time is going so fast. One day she was a newborn in my arms, the next a running screaming toddler, and now... A beautiful little school girl learning and growing everyday.

With Kerry away this week, we had a little celebration with my Mum and sister. We had McDonalds at her request and a little cake.

We got her a camera, a kids 'tough' one, and she loves it, I think she's taken over 200 photos already!? Her cousin Havannah-lily made her an 'octopus' out of a bottle and some papers and she love that too! {she's named it Max} and from Aunty Sariah she got a cd of 'One Direction' which of course, she loves, she had a total melt down when she wanted to sleep with it, but I couldn't find it!

I'm pretty sure she's had a good day, I can't wait until Saturday!!






Tuesday, December 11, 2012

Being a bad Mum

Kerry has gone away for work this week so to tonight was just myself and the three kids. I was becoming more and more stressed out as Carter wouldn't go to sleep, Taylah and Mathias were playing up and I couldn't get through to Kerry on his mobile, I thought if I could just hear his voice it always make me feel a little better.

After Carter finally went to sleep, I went and got dinner for my big two I was still stressed out and when Mathias came and sat in the kitchen doorway holding his foot and whimpering, I didn't take any notice of him. I went about doing what ever I was doing, while he sat there. After about 5-10minutes I went over to him only to see that he had something sticking out of his foot. On the first grab it wouldn't budge, so, feeling pretty guilty by then, I picked him up as his crying got louder, and tried to pull it out.

After that, Taylah wanted to look after him for the rest of the night. They ate, and I sat on my couch feeling so sorry for myself! Listening to that voice in my head that was reminding me of what a terrible housewife I am, my house is one big massive hideous mess and what a bad mother I was being.

Sitting there drowning in my sorrows, crying to myself, I motioned Mathias to come to me. He sat on my lap and we cuddled which made me cry even more. Once Taylah was finished she came and cuddled too. Then she said to me 'you know I love you mum?'

I don't know if there are any sweeter words than hearing my children tell me how much they love me. I want to be a better mother for them. I want to be a better person for them.



Sunday, December 9, 2012

Unfit

I played oztag on Saturday and my legs, butt, abs and arms have been aching for the last two days! I am so unfit it's not funny and I never would have played if Leilani and my husband didn't insist and really, who's going to say no to a pregnant woman!? It has been years and years since I last played sport of any kind and I am certainly not one to jump up a play.

After all that, and feeling like I was going to pass out and die, I enjoyed it. It reminded me of the days when I was fit hahaha!

Friday, November 30, 2012

Growing pains

Today Kerry picked up our new car. I am SOOOooo excited to be rid of our 2000 Holden Commodore that has been dying a slow and painful death for some time now, and into our new car, a 2007 Honda Accord. I'm so excited I spent an hour just driving around in it tonight after the kiddies were asleep.

It happened very suddenly and unplanned {which seems to be our thing} I was a little down feeling like I had to do this on my own because Kerry is so busy with work, more often than not, working six days a week lately. So when he arrived home a little earlier on Thursday I jumped right on it and convinced him that we should seize the moment and go and take a look at some cars.

We arrived at the dealers at 5.30pm and had 30 minutes before they were supposed to close. One thing lead to another and nearly an hour and a half later papers were signed and it was pretty much a done deal.

I feel like a massive weight has been lifted off my back and I honestly can't believe that we got it! I am grateful to my Mum for letting us use her car while we tried to figure this out {but I'll save that for another post}

In other news, I set up a meeting with Taylah-benet's teacher to discuss her behaviour of late. I wanted to find out from her if anything might be going on in the playground that could be causing her to behave this way.

She told me there are no problems for Taylah-benet in the play ground. She does tend to play with the boys more than the girls but the girls are not excluding her in any way. She doesn't believe there is any malice behind Taylah-benet's acts or retaliation, just that Taylah simply isn't thinking about her actions and truthfully, that's how she plays with her brother.

Her teacher seemed more concerned with Taylah's attention and focus, or lack thereof. She is not completing any of her work in class, is always the last to follow any instruction to the class from the teacher. She is very easily distracted and struggles to focus her attention.

All of those things I knew because she is very much like that at home. Every morning I find it ironic that I have one child who I'm constantly telling to hurry up because she's 2 meters behind me, and one child who I am telling to slow down because he is 5 meters in front of me!

The teachers concern recommended that I might want to 'follow' it up with possibly a visit to a GP for a referral to someone who could assess if Taylah has a attention disorder.

I sat there wanting to cry! as I listen to the sincere concerns of Taylah's teacher. Her concern that this could hold her back in her learning as the work load increases throughout her schooling. A concern I share.

I came out wanting to cry, in fact I think I did just a little. But, as I discussed the meeting with Kerry, my sisters and my Mum, we all agreed on one thing {well, more than one} that Taylah-benet is Exactly like me!

Yeah, imagine my excitement in that revelation! not really a revelation because we've always known she is so much like me. I have a fear that she is too much like me. But then I remember she is like her daddy too. She has so much more confidence than I ever had at that age. I don't think I interacted with anyone, including the teacher, in my first few years of primary school.

So, I did think about taking her to a doctor or a specialist, but then I though, we are so quick to want to diagnose these days and really, what difference would it make if she was diagnosed with an attention disorder. She is not any wost than I was at that age and I turned out OK {Ha!}

If I strive to spend a little more one on one time with her, sitting down to read a story, write a sentence or do some math, then I'm doing the best I know how to help her continue to learn and progress.

I'm not going to take her to a specialist. But watch how she goes in year 1 and just try to encourage her to focus and concentrate.

Well, good job for making it this far! this post is a novel! Xx

Sunday, November 25, 2012

Hey, It's the Weekend...and some other stuff

We've had a pretty full weekend and I am so glad it is Monday tomorrow! Taylah-Benet bit someone again at school on Friday. This time instead of being sensitive I was just angry! I tried a few 'empty' threats like, she couldn't be in her dance concert {totally empty because I've already paid so much for her to be in it} or she couldn't be in her primary presentation, neither of those got a response. It wasn't until I told her she couldn't have a drink of apple juice, that she threw a full blown tantrum! go figure!

Saturday night we celebrated my nephew Hendrix's 5th Birthday with an Avengers themed party. It was a really great night, just me and the two boys went while Kerry stayed home with Taylah-Benet.

Today {Sunday 25th November 2012} was our Primary Presentation at church. I Love watching Taylah-Benet get up and say her line, watching her sing and participate totally warmed my heart. I did spot a few moments where her attention was wandering off, but I could not have been more proud of my Beautiful little girl up on that stand today.

Tonight we went to Taylah-Benet's dance concert. She does jazz once a week and they have a big concert at the end of each year.She is not the most co ordinated girl, but I feel it is a great opportunity for her to have some fun, make some friends and see if it is a skill she might like to endeavor in. But most of all have fun! My two nieces are in the concert also and those Greening girls have got some talent! There is Havannah-Lily who is a little technical and hits the beat, she is such an amazing little dancer and has natural talent when it comes to music in general. Then there is the mischievous Ava-Ruby, who just can't keep still! A while back I read a story of a mother who had a similar problem with her child, this was back in the years where they were quick to diagnose ADHD, medicate and institute. This little girl didn't concentrate in at school or home so when the mother took her to the doctor, the wise doctor ask the mother to follow him out of the room and leave the young girl. They observed her from a distance while the doctor placed some music on in the room where she sat and she instantly got up and started dancing and moving. The doctor turned to the mother and said 'There's nothing wrong with your daughter, she a dancer' That, is Ava-Ruby, she can't keep still, literally, I've tried! she doesn't have the technical skill of her older sister, but she definitely has talent!

Then there's my sweet Taylah-Benet, and she is just that, sweet. she LOVES dancing! I'm not sure if it's her younger age but she hasn't displayed the same intuition as her cousins, but I love that she loves to do it reardless.

On Saturday I got my hair cut pretty short. I LOVE my long hair but I just wanted a change. I thought I might cry for the first day or two, but as soon as it was done and styled, I love it! I love how simple it is and I was going for something easier and quicker to style, I've had nothing but good comments on it too, but then again, who's brave enought to tell me otherwise!? I love it, the husband loves it, and thats all good.

I am so excited and looking forward to Taylah-Benet's 6th Birthday. I am planing a Rainbow themed party. I also Can Not Wait for Christmas! the kids stockings, done, kids christmas AND birthday gift's, done. And half of my family, done! Our last couple of family Christmas's have been handmade, we make all the gifts for our extended family christmas which is SOOO much fun, thoughtful and meaningful, but this year I decided to buy all the gifts and I'm so excited to give them all!

I am so glad our family continues to give gifts to everyone. I know it costs more, it would certianly be alot cheaper and easier to only buy for one person in our extended family and I used to wonder why we didn't do it! until a couple years ago during a conversation with my Mum and Nana about why we shouldn't do that, and I had to agree. Christmas wouldn't be the same. the kids don't care how expensive or cheap a gift was, that's not what matters. It's the joy felt in giving, the excitement for young children of opening gifts carefully wraped. I have great memories as a child on Christmas morning, waking up to find a neatly stuffed stocking at the end of my bed. Heading over to my grandparents place to meet up with our extened family to open more gifts. Sleeping out on my grandparents balcony watching the night sky carefully in the hope of catching a glance of Santa's sleigh. All the children acting out the Nativity, a tradition we still do today. All things I am so grateful for and hope to pass onto my children.

One year my uncle gave us rocks that he had painted. Another he gave us all a felt pen and my Nana a blank book in which we all would colour a favourite memory of that Christmas spent together as a family. As big as my family gets here in Sydney{we are going on 13 adults and 17 kids} I hope we never stop giving gifts to each other at Christmas time.

Tuesday, November 20, 2012

Consequences

Today {Tuesday 20th November 2012} I picked Taylah-Benet up from school and checked her bag as I usually do, only to find a letter. I opened it right then and there. It read;

Dear Mr. and Mrs Pemberton,

Your child, Taylah-Benet, has recently displayed the following behaviour. The incident was investigated and followed up by classroom teacher and executive staff.

  • Picked up a child's arm and bit it.
Due to this behaviour, the following consequences were discussed with a view to give Taylah-Benet the opportunity to reflect on her behaviour:

  • Placed on detention for 2 days
  • Referred to Mrs Lloyd
I quickly turned to her and asked her to tell me what happened and basically, they were sitting in class, and Taylah-Benet was trying to talk this girl, and when she didn't respond she picked up her arm and bit it!

I was so embarrassed, I didn't know what to do, I really just felt like I had just turned bright red. Not with anger, I'm not quite sure with what. I could hardly believe that my little princess had behaved like this at school. Haven't I taught her that, that kind of behaviour is not acceptable? haven't I taught her that is unkind?

As I went back to my sisters and had to slowly overcome my shock, I knew there needed to be a consequence, not just at school, but at home, to re enforce the lesson that her actions have consequences. So after talking it over, I felt I had found an appropriate consequence that would be painful for her...and for me.

But I decided to wait until Kerry and I could discuss it with her together.

As I watched her dancing I felt a sorrow. I watched my beautiful daughter who means the world to me, make this wrong choice. It pains me. But it never alters my love for her. It pains me that she needs to endure the consequences of her wrong choice in order for her to learn.

I felt a similarity. To the way God must feel for us. When I, as his child make a wrong choice, the sorrow he might feel to watch me, and knowing that the path back, to learn my lesson, is not an easy one, but necessary.

After Kerry arrived home from work, we, the three of us went to her room. Kerry and I sat together facing Taylah-Benet, each of us holding one of her hand as we explained to her the lesson she needed to learn. That behaviour is not acceptable. And her consequence at school would be 2 days of detention. And her consequence at home would be that she is not allowed to go to her cousins birthday party on the weekend. One that we have all been looking forward to.

As our message sunk in, we could both see her hurt. She, trying to hold back her tears and accept the consequence of her actions. I could not hold back my tears. I felt her pain.

I know she is young and has many many more lessons to learn that will have far greater consequences than this. But I will never forget this feeling.

I have so much love for her. After all is said and done, I ask her 'you know we love you? you know I love you? no matter what!'

As long as she knows I love her

Sunday, November 18, 2012

a little update on the happs..

Last Sunday {11th Nov 2012} Taylah-benet lost her third tooth, and on the other hand Carter is growing them like there is no tomorrow! he has ten teeth now, only four that are fully through, three that have just cut through and three that I can see just beneath his gum.

On a really random side note, I had a really random dream yesterday that I gave birth to another baby boy, but I had three more boys each named Carter, Mason and Cole! I was totally confused and woke up now wanting to call our next son Cole! I'd totally do it, Kerry wasn't too keen as we have already used Cole in Carters name.

Back on track!... He is growing so fast and I can hardly believe he will be one in three short months!

I am enjoying having him as my baby and even trying to delay his transition from my baby to my crawler then my toddler!! He is loving his solids, having three meals a day along with his bottles. He is getting better at sleeping through the night and will only wake if he missed a feed/bottle during the day.

Last weekend my Aunt Caroline moved to a small country town, three and a half hours drive away! I can't wait to go and see their new home!

Last Monday my Mum got back from a two week trip to Fiji. She went with a friend, to teach a group of woman how to sew patchwork and quilting. They devised the programme themselves, fund raised, and paid their own way there to make this dream of theirs a reality.

Unfortunately while there my Mum broke out with Shingles, and has spent the last week at home resting. She has been going to the eye hospital in the city as she got one on her eye and can't see out of it. They have been unable to assess the damage while it is still inflamed but we are all hopeful that it has not caused any permanent damage.



Friday, November 16, 2012

Car Matters

The last couple of days I have been a little stressed out worrying about my car. I know there are so many things wrong with it and it always seems like there is something else.

Yesterday I put the car in for a service so we could have it down on paper, all the things that need to be fixed and their cost. The grand total? was over $3000

As many problems it gives us, I am always mindful to be grateful. It allows me to get my daughter to and from school. It allows me to go to work. Getting me and my family from A to B day in day out. Without it, we would not be able to accomplish any of this so I am so grateful for it.

That being said, we need to make a choice. A choice on weather we should pay the money to get it fixed, or buy a new car.

As much as I would LOVE a new car, it's easier said than done. As Kerry and I have been discussing this matter in great depth, exploring our options and inventing new ones {like winning Smooth FM's smooth stars $130,000! only one more voice to guess!!} I had a feeling, a very quiet one, that as well as our conversations and inventions, we need to pray. Include the Lord in our decision so that he can help us make the right one!

Such a simple concept to some, this comes easily {not without their own practice} Practice that I have very rarely applied in my own life but one that I know I should.

I have complete Faith, that he helps us overcome ALL of our challenges and trials, even when we might be slow to acknowledge him. I have gained strength in my testimony as I look back on my life and see his loving hand guide me and my family.

Though I feel the weight of this matter upon me now, I Know, we, with the Lord, can get through this!

Thursday, November 15, 2012

Star Struck

On Sunday we attended my sisters ward to watch my niece's and nephew in their Primary Presentation. As the Sacrament was being passed and the boys passing it were making their way down the isles closer to our row of seats, all of a sudden Taylah-benet started jumping on her seat she was so excited! she turned to me and trying to whisper "Mummy!, Mum! There's a 'One Direction' boy!" referring to one of the boys passing the sacrament!

As they got closer she spotted ANOTHER 'One Direction' boy! she could barely contain her excitement!

A couple of weeks back she also spotted Psy, the Korean singer of the popular 'Gangnam Style' at a nearby fish and chip shop! saying "I can't believe he's here in Australia and I got to see him!"

I couldn't find it in my heart to break the truth to her that it was just an Asian man in a suit and sunglasses!

Mathias and his OCD

Last Friday on my morning walk Mathias got given a scooter. The man who gave it to him was just getting rid of it, so after Mathias gave him a very loud and friendly 'Hello' he gave him this scooter.

For the next two days at least the scooter didn't leave his side! we had to take it everywhere with us, home, car, Camilla's, Bed. Yes, he was sleeping with it too! {I do have photo proof}

He certainly is a funny kid. I think he has a slight case of OCD. He'll wear the same shirt for days because he doesn't want to wear any other shirt except that 'one' When I finally wrestle it off him to wash it, if he so much as catches a glance of it on the line or in the washing pile, it's straight back on his body!

It's not any shirt in particular, just which ever one he has his little heart set on at the time.

On Tuesday Kerry was working at a shop at DFO and found some shoes he really liked for Mathias.


Needless to say, he's barely taken them off!!

Politics

A little over a week ago now Barack Obama was re-elected as the President of the United States of America. This usually wouldn't have my attention, but this election seemed to grab the attention of the entire world, well, the Latter Day Saint world, seeing as his opposition, Mitt Romney is a fellow member of the Church. I know I don't know enough to make an informed opinion on the whole election, but I was in favour on Romney. I honestly don't know if I am feeling biased in that decision {probably} but it seemed like a a good way to go for America, and the world. I felt like it was a sign of hope. Hope that things in the world today and ex specially America as far as economy was concerned, would have a fighting chance to improve.

I only watched one of the Presidential debates, and most if not all of what Romney was saying made sense to me it even reminded me of church teachings on promoting self reliance and debt elimination. None of what Obama had to say made any sense to me.

I feel for my family in America and I hope that there won't be any negative effects for them personally from this result. Hurry up and more over here already!!

In light of this election, I brought the news paper. I felt it was a significant event to remember and one I wanted to share with my children. I know that they are too young to comprehend it all so I thought I would start with something pretty basic.

The day after the election, I was driving in the car with the kids pondering how I could teach Taylah-benet about politics! I asked her if she knew who the Prime minister of Australia is? she didn't know {duh!} so, I tried to explain very simply who a Prime minister is, what they do, and who the prime minister of Australia is.

I know she doesn't remember the details of our conversation, because I asked her again the very next day. But that's how she will learn right.

I like the saying, "Bad things will happen when Good men do nothing." because it makes me feel like I have an obligation, which I do!

I know I am one of those who is doing nothing. I live in a beautiful country where I feel free to live and believe how I choose. but I don't concern myself with the decision on who I would choose to run it. {I can tell you I would NOT have voted for our current Prime minister}

I consider myself an Australian. I was born in New Zealand, but this is my home. This is where I grew up, this is where I love. This is where I am raising my family as Australians and I am blessed to live here.

I want to have a voice. I want to vote. I want to have a say. For good. For my family. For myself.

I want to teach my children the importance of using their voice to have their say. To stand up and fight for what they believe in. For what is right. So they can be better than me.

Wednesday, November 14, 2012

Helping Hands

I have so many memories building up that I need to hurry up and write down before I forget! But, I have to share this, it had be crying! Thanks to Rockstar Diaries for sharing


Friday, November 2, 2012

Halloween Week

It's been a pretty busy week here so I've taken some time out from the cleaning to give a little update while the big two play in there room, and Carter plays in his cot.

Taylah-Benet's Class presented their school Assembly this week in which she had a little speaking part. It was the cutest thing to watch her so confident, say her part. I did take a video of it for her Daddy as I do feel a little sorry for him having to miss out on these little things and he's always grateful.

Taylah went to a friends birthday party on Wednesday 'Halloween' and wore the only dress up we have, Spider man, or Spider girl in her case which is two sizes to small for her and belongs to her little brother, but she didn't care in the slightest.

Taylah-Benet as 'SpiderGirl' for Natalia's 'Halloween' Birthday party 31 October 2012

Thurday, my niece Havannah-Lily turned 9. I can't believe how fast this girl has grown, I remember the days when she was still in her Mummy's belly and I used to try and poke and prod my sisters belly until I could find the little baby inside.

I remember the day she was born, that first visit in the hospital, and watching her grow from a tiny little baby, to this big 9 year old girl. She was the first to make me an auntie, and she couldn't be more perfect.
Havannah-Lily's 9th 'Halloween' Theme Birthday Party Friday 2nd November 2012

Last night we celebrated her birthday in style with a 'Halloween' Theme birthday party.

Today is just a quiet one at home! Trying not to eat the treats left in the fridge and failing miserably!

I have lost 5 kilos though!! 5 down, 10 to go!

Sunday, October 28, 2012

Apple Rhubarb Crumble

Last night I made this for the husband and I and I thought I'd share as it was SUPER DELICIOUS!!

Apple Rhubarb Crumble

Ingredients

600g Rhubarb, cut into 3cm pieces
4-5 Granny Smith Apples, cored, quartered and sliced
1Cup of Caster Sugar

CRUMBLE

1 Cup of plain flour
1/2 Cup Rolled Oats
1/4 Cup Brown Sugar
1/4 Cup Coconut
65g Unsalted butter

Method

First off, I did this different to the actual recipe.

First I stewed the Rhubarb with the sugar and a tiny amount or water {make sure you stay and watch it, as it does not take long to burn it} once all the Rhubarb has stewed/softened I transferred it to another bowl then stewed the apple {we used Pink lady apples, it's completely up to you} with another cup of caster sugar and a tiny amount of water {again, stay and watch it!} once the apple slices were all soft and stewed I just mixed the two together and placed it in the greased baking dish.

For the crumble, Mix the dry ingredients with the butter to form a breadcrumb like mixture.

Place crumble over top of the apple and rhubarb.

Bake at 180 degrees for 25 minutes.

Served with Ice cream and/or cream

ENJOY! We did!

Saturday, October 27, 2012

Glee MPS School Production

This week Taylah-Benet had her school production and this year it was based on the popular TV series 'Glee'. They had two performances. Wednesday and Thursday night. She has been so excited in the lead up to this production, singing and dancing at home, I was excited to see her perform on the night.

I went to the Wednesday night show with Mathias and my Mum and it was pretty good. I have only been to one other school production there years ago when Taylah-Benet was a baby and it was not a good memory. I don't remember too much about the show, but that the hall was so so hot and jam packed full of people.

This years show was pretty good, and by good I mean you had to be one of the parents to feel that it was good. But, I did enjoy it.

Taylah-Benet's class danced to 'Sweet Caroline' and 'Baby, baby, baby' She was by far the cutest thing on that stage!

I was a little upset by the fact that she was placed in the back. well, more than a little. Not like in the middle, the very back and they didn't even move from their spots so she was in the back for their whole performance.

All I really wanted was to she my little girl shine in her moment, and I did! she had a fabulous time. I guess I wanted other people to she her shine too, but she wasn't even given the opportunity {gosh I sound like an overbearing mother! tell me I'm not alone here!}

Wednesday 24th October 2012 School Production 'Glee MPS' Kindy

 
 
She is the sweetest little girl and I love her with every fiber of my being. As long as I know she is safe, happy, learning and growing, I figure at least I'm getting something right. Kerry tells me she is just like me, but I feel she is all the BEST parts of me, they all are. I know I'm biased but I think as mothers it's our right to be, and that's what makes us good mothers to OUR children.

Thursday, October 25, 2012

Oh no! My Baby's growing

I know that is a good thing, but heck! Carter had started to get up on his knees a couple of weeks back, which progressed to a three hundred and sixty degree swivel, then to pushing his body backwards. But now he's found a way to move forward and I can't keep him still! he's fallen off my bed two times this week! TWO times! on my watch too!

I must say, it is the cutest thing to watch him move forward, he hasn't got the crawling with his knees thing, instead, he uses he feet to push himself forward it looks hilarious, like a little frog!

So, on top of that. he tried to stand up holding on the the furniture today too! Who said my baby could grow so much over night! Seriously. Now nothing is safe!

I realise I may have been a little harsh on the old Phil and Teds last time, when truthfully, I love my pram. I think it's one of the most stylish 'inline' double prams around. It looks great, it feels great and easy to push {when there's nothing wrong with it} and if all else fails, their customer support is impeccable.

Today I received a new frame, a new front wheel, mud guards, and bumper bar total RRP$650 for $0, it's like I have a whole new and better pram, and I love it.

Monday, October 22, 2012

Bad Vibe s...

I've been sitting here most of the evening wondering what I could write about on my blog. What happened this week? Nothing? really? How boring!?

Then I remember, a not so nice something, that I just have to laugh at because if I don't laugh, I might just cry or punch someone!?

On my usual walk on Friday morning, I was nearing the end of the 6km heading back to my sisters house, pushing my two boys in my Phil & Ted Vibe pram when suddenly it felt kind of strange to push the pram, something happened and it wasn't until I walked a little further and looked down to where Carter was sitting in the double kit and his seat had sunken a little lower.

The back bar of my pram had completely detached itself from the main frame. Thankfully, Carter was fine, because the double kit was still locked into the front of the frame, it didn't fall to the ground.


I find this kind of funny because the pram cost so much being their top of the line pram that I insisted on having! and it is only 3 years old.

It's now useless as it can't even be used as a single because the whole frame is now unstable.

I took Carter out and placed him in the front and made Mathias walk with me back to Camilla's.

I have been in contact with Phil & Ted to give them a piece of my mind! But really, how dangerous is that!!

I am hoping they'll replace the frame, but still, I think I'll be steering clear of Phil & Teds from now on!

Wednesday, October 17, 2012

Ain't nothin' but a number...Right?

I know my weight shouldn't bother me so much. But it does.

Monday I did a big clean up of my bedroom and pulled out all my 'yellow' cards from each of my pregnancies. Only to realise that what I weigh now, is the same as what I weighed when I was 40 Weeks Pregnant!!! with Taylah-benet. I know, shocking right!?

I am trying to slowly and surely trying to change my bad habits and create new and healthy ones. WISH ME SOME LUCK!! HARD WORK!

Hmm think I might give this a go!?


Sunday, October 14, 2012

It's been a Cake Pop kind of week...

It has been a cake pop kind of week / weekend

The first lot were for a Thomas the Tank Engine themed 3rd birthday party. I made a THIS Red Velvet Cake which I use all the time, with cream cheese frosting, then coated with blue candy melts {confectionery coating}


The second batch I made for a little girls 9th pamper birthday party, with the theme colours of teal and pink. I made the yellow cake recipe from Bakerella's book 'Cake Pops' and added teal colour paste and bubblegum essence, with cream cheese frosting, then coated with a packet of hot pink melts combined with a packet of super white melts to tone down the hot pink. THEN, my first time ever, once they set, dusted on pink pearl dust, which give it a shimmer look. So Pretty!!


Have I told you I LOVE to bake!? Happy Birthday guys, I hope you enjoyed eating them, as much as I enjoyed making them!

Wednesday, October 10, 2012

What makes the difference?

Taylah-Benet has been back at school for three days now and it's always refreshing to re-discover the feeling of having one less child, for a significant part of the day.

Each time I have another precious little baby, I realise how much easier it was to have the former. Two kids is so much easier than three, and one kid is so much easier than two. You get the idea.

Yet when I think back to my days of just one little tot, I remember feeling like this whole motherhood gig was a tough, time consuming job! I thought finding time to have a shower was hard then...when really, I had NO idea!

I think having one is tough. Essentially because it is all new. Learning how to be a mother, generally from a course of trial and error. My Nana told me once, that it really is a wonder how any of our first Born's survive, because they are the first runs, they are the ones we may learn our mistakes from. Not to say we don't learn from our mistakes with the other children, because they are each SO different and unique.

It is all uphill from there.

More children, take more time, have more demands, and needs that are expected to be met by one. little. You!

Yes. being a mum {all in my 6years journey so far!} is more demanding and difficult than it is easy.

But as we'll always say...SO worth it!

Sunday, October 7, 2012

Keeping the spark alive

Six and half years of marriage and three kids in tow, that spark we had when we first met can fizzle a little. Time and kids will do that to a couple.

We don't have the same carefree lifestyle we used to have {not the we thought it was carefree back then!} We have things like responsibilities, bills to pay, mouths to feed, and then be put to bed at a reasonable hour so we can actually get some 'Me' time.

BUT, there's always reminders throughout my day of how much I love him, why I love him so much, and why, that although we are far from perfect, we are perfect for each other.

It could be as simple a a glance across the room, a phone call, or him bringing flowers and chocolates home for me after a rough day.

We don't get the time {or the money} to go out on a date night too often, but when we do, it's a real treat.

Thank you Mum for taking our three kids for the evening, we are always grateful, and I'm always excited to pick them up again.





Thursday, October 4, 2012

One of those days

Today was one of those days. The ones where I phone my husband at work every 10 minutes to see when he's coming home. The one where Taylah-benet is hitting her brother, and amping up the 'school girl' attitude. Where Mathias hits his baby brother while I'm driving and when I tell him off, his eyes widen as if to threaten me, he claps his hands at me and snaps 'No!' And the one where as soon as my husband does walk in the door I crumble into a ball of tears.

A little because of the naughty behaviour I've been struggling with all day. But mostly because of the way I have behaved in reaction.

I hope I can learn to be better! and I am grateful the tomorrow is a new day!

We have had a pretty sweet school holidays so far. 'Madagascar 3' with Nana. Church playgroup, Thirroul beach with my sisters family. 'Hotel Transylvania' in 3D with daddy. Wiggles play center with friends. and to finish it off this weekend we have plans of swimming pools, Costco, and the kids hanging out with Nana so the Mr and I can catch a date night {Yay!}

I must say I am looking forward to school going back! {that might be a first!}

Monday, September 24, 2012

Building Character

I LOVE how different my children are. Individual and unique in so many ways, each as precious as each other.

Taylah-benet is a true little lady. Polite, nurturing, and kind. She has such a compassionate nature and with complete faith.

Mathias is playful, humorous, bold and boasts all the attributes of a 'real boy'. He is incredibly energetic. Inquisitive and curious.

Carter is yet to show us his personality, but we anticipate it's gradual reveal. In his tiny 7 months we can see snippets of his sensitivity, his firmness and determination. He takes things in his own stride.

They each possess the same qualities, however their strongest features shine out of them and grow each day.

It is my blessing and honor to be there mother, to teach and learn from them the greatest lessons from the greatest teachers. It really is no wonder that we are to become like 'little children'

They truly are the treasures this life has to offer.

It is hard. but incredibly worth it in every way.

Friday, September 21, 2012

Another Anniversary

Yesterday Kerry and I Celebrated the 5th anniversary of our sealing in the Sydney Australia Temple {I am totally bummed that I don't have any photos from that night...they were lost}

But I did keep one of the beautiful invitations I got {Sorry, this was meant for you Lian!!}


One of the greatest nights of my life and one I will be greatful for making it to!

Kerry surprized me with dinner {'take out'},beautiful flowers and some yumo chocolates and sparkling grape juice at home. That's just how we do it :)

I'm so glad school holidays are here! and Christmas is just around the corner too! my favourite time of the year

Carter's fussy toned down a little bit, and he is growing two more teeth, the top ones!


Thursday, September 20, 2012

Chocolate Cupcakes

And here's another one :)

 

Chocolate Cupcakes


125g butter, at room temperature
¾ cup caster sugar
1 teaspoon vanilla extract
2 eggs
1 cup self-raising flour, sifted
1/3 cup cocoa or 3 Tablespoons
½ cup milk

Buttercream Frosting


125g butter, at room temperature
1 ½ cups icing sugar, sifted
2 Tablespoons milk
2 Tablespoons cocoa

METHOD


Preheat oven to 180˚C Line a 12-hole muffin pan with paper patty cases. In a large bowl, using an electric mixer, beat butter, sugar and vanilla together until pale and creamy. Add eggs one at a time, beating well after each one. Sift flour and cocoa, then add milk. Spoon mixture into patty cases until 2/3 full. Bake for 15-20 minutes, or test one by gently tapping the top. If it springs right back up they are ready to be removed from the oven. Cool for 5 minutes before transferring to a wire rack to cool completely

CHOCOLATE BUTTERCREAM


In a small bowl, using an electric mixer, beat butter until pale. Gradually add the icing sugar and cocoa, beat until all combined, finally add milk. You are now ready to decorate.

Enjoy your Scrumptious cupcakes!

 

Carrot and Ginger Muffins

If you're in the mood for baking this weekend {maybe to take on a picnic lunch with the kids} I'll be trying this one out..

Carrot and Ginger Muffins

310g plain flour
1 teaspoon ground ginger
2 teaspoons baking powder
½ teaspoon bicarbonate soda
Pinch of salt
300ml buttermilk (or regular milk soured with a squeeze of lemon juice)
2 free-range eggs
1 teaspoon vanilla extract
200g soft brown sugar
125g unsalted butter, melted
120g grated carrot (about 1 carrot)

1.Preheat the oven to 190˚ (gas mark 5). Grease a 12-hole muffin tin or line with paper muffin cases

2. Sift the flour, ginger, baking powder, bicarbonate soda and salt into a large bowl and make a well in the center.

3. Wisk together the buttermilk, eggs, vanilla, sugar and melted butter. Pour into the well in the flour mixture and stir until the ingredients are just combined. Do not overmix – the batter should not be smooth. Quickly fold in the grated carrot with a large metal spoon.

4. Spoon the batter evenly into the muffin holes and bake for 20-25 minutes or until the tops are golden. A skewer inserted in the centre should come out clean. Cool in the tin for 5 minutes, then turn out onto a wire rack. Serve warm or at room temperature. Store in an airtight for up to 2 days.

Wednesday, September 19, 2012

Girl on fire

I love Anthems for Women and this one is Awesome!


This is for you Lian!! We are soul sisters and you are ON FIRE Xx

Sunday, September 16, 2012

She doesn't get it!

I have always been a pretty shy person, but with my age I feel like I have been able to shake off some of that. However, I still get pretty shy around groups of people. It's not something I really like because I feel like I don't make friends easily because of it.

When Taylah-Benet started school, I was introduced to a whole new side of mums. School mums.

It's like high school all over again. They bunch up and chat in the mornings at school drop off, then they bunch up and chat at school pick up. I feel like I have a massive sign hanging around my neck that Say's 'DON'T TALK TO HER, SHE DOESN'T GET IT!'

I am a pretty firm believer in that, you teach people how to treat you, so I know the obvious lacking on my part but I can't help but feel a little alienated by these mums.

Yesterday I took Taylah-Benet to a school friends Birthday party, and I felt so super awkward around these women, like a total social outcast.

OK, rant over.

On a happier note,Taylah-benet had an awesome time at the party, Kerry is sick. pretty bad sick like 'been in bed all day sick'. Carter has amped up his fussy too, won't take his dummy, won't sleep during the day, in fact, won't let me do anything during the day except hold him.He's still so cute though. Mathias is up to his old tricks, yelling and screaming and stuff, not as bad as before though.

And I've come to the conclusion that if I want a dress that is long and has selves, I'm just going to have to make it. Because it just doesn't seem to exist in the stores!

Friday, September 14, 2012

Two 'Moments' in one day

I don't know what is up with me but today I had two moments... you know the ones where you feel like crying {in my case ACTUAL crying} OK, not full on crying, just a few tears in the eyes.

This morning we got to school earlier than usual. so when I kissed Taylah-benet goodbye, she ran off to where all the children were playing, all the way to the other side where the lunch seats are. and just sat there. and I had to walk away. not an epic moment I know, but a scene that hit my heart in all directions. I'm so scared of the day I have to let my babies go, and this felt like a tester of what's in store. I really don't know how to explain it. but, I'm scared. scared of the world. what it might do to them. either pull them away from me, or {and hopefully} closer to me and the things I am trying to teach them.

Then...

this afternoon after picking Taylah-benet up from school, I had put some music on for the kids to dance around to. I flicked it onto a song I like {we take turns picking the songs, Mathias is currently 'Battle scars' Guy Sebastian and Taylah-Benet 'Boyfriend' Justin Bieber} and I played 'Songbird' by Eva Cassidy, a very slow song in comparison to the beats they were bopping around to. Taylah-Benet started to twirl around, then she grabbed Mathias and started to dance with him, placing his hand on her waist, her hand on his shoulder, and their other hands holding each other. Combined with the Beautiful lyrics and soothing tones of Eva Cassidy's voice, I couldn't help but feel so much love for these two little kids dancing in my lounge room. giggling away as they tried to dance like 'grown up's'

So, here's the song to send you off into the weekend! have a good one!!

Wednesday, September 12, 2012

Sick sick kids

Two sick kids last week. Taylah-benet had a massive blood nose and a temperature last Tuesday night so she stayed home from school on Wednesday. She felt good Thursday and went to school, then on Friday she said she was feeling sick and didn't want to go. I may have persuaded her to go... by giving her a lunch order! argh, ok, I felt bad, but I didn't want her to stay home two days in one week. She is the easiest and most pleasant to have at home, I just wanted her to go to school!

So I felt even worse about 'persuading' her, when she woke up looking terrible on Saturday morning AND she couldn't hear properly while I was talking to her. As suspected, she has a ear and throat infection. a pretty bad one.

She's so much better though! to top it off, Mathias was getting a temperature Saturday night! he seems OK, I just kept giving him panadol.

Saturday night I was out celebrating my Aunties 40th Birthday. it was a great night. a surprise!. I made cake pops of course, Chocolate cake with orange essence added, chocolate cream cheese frosting, and orange melts with orange essence added. I think these are the yummiest {is that even a word?} ones I have made, they tasted like chocolate jaffa!

I also made the birthday cake. if you know my auntie, you know she makes and decorates cakes! So I felt a tad pressure to make this cake look good!

I made a orange layer cake, frosted with a butter cream icing, but substituted the butter with solite {vegetable fat/shortening} so that it was white, instead of the yellow colour of butter. I was happy with how it turned out seeing as it was my first ever attempt to decorate a cake. Except I didn't like the taste of the icing {solite} although I didn't try it on the cake.

Thursday, September 6, 2012

The Moon is following Me

First day back at work in about 10 months. It felt kind of funny. Driving there I had to try remember what I had to do! But, as I stepped back into that office allot of it came back to me {OK, so I did have to ask a couple questions...} It felt great to be back.

Last week we were at my mums house and it was dark out when we left, as we walked down the drive way with our three kids, Mathias was rather excited to see so many stars and the moon in the night sky, he yelled out 'Mum! the moon's following me!'


He Say's so many funny things, he's such a character I wish I could record and remember all the funny things he says and does.

Quite often I can hear him playing in his room, talking to his toys, telling them off even, for not listening!? this week while driving in the car he was talking to his daddy's basketball!

He is memorising 'The Living Christ' so well he can recite the first three weeks. most people don't understand what he is saying because he blends all the words together and goes so fast, but I know. I practice with the kids in the car every morning, we take turns. Mathias always has to go first. Now when we get in the car he starts us off "OK, who wants to go 'As we'?" {As we, the first two words}





Sunday, September 2, 2012

These kids love their Daddy

No doubt about it, these kids love their daddy.


Happy Fathers Day! You are the bestest daddy ever!

Friday, August 31, 2012

Cake Pops


I'm on Cake pop duty for the big 'Breakfast Birthday Party' tomorrow morning.

Making cake pops sounds quite easy, but really, it can be rather tricky. Allot of practice and learning through trial in error is the best way to learn.

Basically all it is, bake a cake - you can do this from a packet of from scratch, let it cool completely then break it up {best done with clean hands and a fork} into fine crumbs, make a frosting of your choice and then add it to the cake crumbs. You want enough frosting for it to stick together kind of like play dough, but be careful not to add too much, if you do you can simply add more cake to the mixture. Using a spoon to scoop the mixture out, roll it into small balls and place on a baking tray with non-stick baking paper on it. Refrigerate overnight or freeze for 15 minutes then put them in the fridge, you want the balls firm but not frozen. Melt your coating in the microwave in a narrow plastic bowl 30seconds at a time and mixing in between making sure the coating doesn't get too hot and cease or burn. Taking only a few cake balls out at a time, dip the lollypop stick into the coating about 1-2cm then into the cake ball but be careful not to go more than half way in. Then dip the cake ball in in one movement, down straight in, then one movement to pull it out. If you move it too much the ball will likely fall off. Tap any excess coating off. The coating will set very quickly so {about 30-60sec} so if you add adding sprinkles or anything like that you need to do it fast. Then stick it in a Styrofoam block.

Too easy right!?

Well, there are more tips/tricks I need to add...

I have made them with a packet cake, but mostly from scratch. I have made THIS Red Velvet Cake which is a great size and taste or for plain and chocolate cakes I have found the best ones for me to use are from Bakerella's book 'Cake Pops' {let me know if you want me to post these} they are a great size and taste too.

For frosting I prefer to use cream cheese frosting, I have used and vanilla butter icing {recipe from Bakerells book} but found that it just added too much too the sweetness it's all pretty much more butter and sugar, so i find that the cream cheese adds a different taste to break up the sweetness/sugar. And you can add a flavour to the cream cheese frosting if you wish.

When you roll the cake crumbs into balls, the best technique I've found for this to get evenly sized cake balls, is to weigh it. I grab a spoon full and weigh 30grams then roll it.

You want to roll the cake balls as smooth as possible. The smoother the cake ball the smoother the coating will go on.

To coat the cake balls you will need Candy melts also knows as Confectionary coating. There are two brands that I know about, Wilton and CK/Merkens. Wilton is crap, it is too thick and you usually need to thin it out before you start dipping. Chocolate is not strong enough to hold the cake ball on the stick, so I only use chocolate sometimes only if they are going to be upside down or if I'm not using a stick at all and just want Cake balls.

Working with Candy Melts is the trickiest thing to learn because it can be so temperamental. You need to take extreme care when melting it, I find halving the power of the microwave and checking the temperature {with my hand on the bowl or dipping a finger in} to make sure it is not getting to hot. If you find it has melted too thick, you can add a shortening to it such as coafa {not sure how to spell it} which you can get in the supermarket, or I've found vegetable oil is pretty much the same thing. Just don't add too much, this breaks down the coating and thins it out so if you add too much it won't be strong enough to coat the cake balls. Also, when you add shortening it takes may take a little longer to set/dry. Don't get any moister in the melts, this will make it cease and you can no longer use it once this happens.

When you are ready to dip the cake balls, make sure you have everything set up around you {the sticks. sprinkles, plenty of bowls, styrofoam block} Take the cake balls out of the fridge about 5-6 at a time, they need to be firm BUT because of the contrast in temperature between the cold cake balls and the hot/warm melts, this can cause the coating to crack once after it is set, So, leave the cake balls out about 5-10 mins to come up to room temp a little, then start dipping them.

It is a good idea to poke the holes in the styrofoam block before you start.

Ok, I can't think of anything else right now, but I'm sure I've probably forgotten something.

There are a lot of thing to remember when making Cake pops as you can see, {which is why I hadn't written this post earlier} but, they are great fun, and look and taste fantastic.

For tomorrows party the colours are Navy blue, Peach & Teal. I have made vanilla cake with cream cheese frosting to coat with peach melts, and a chocolate cake with chocolate cream cheese frosting to coat with dark blue melts. {Will post photos later}

 

Tuesday, August 28, 2012

Landon Paul Pemberton



Landon Paul Pemberton 5.12am 27th August 2012 Arizona
We could not be happier for Aunty Saffron that Landon has finally arrived and is as precious as ever. Can not wait for our first skype date with Landon!

Monday, August 27, 2012

Two more sleeps

Two short sleeps and I'll be picking my mum and nana up from the airport YAY! and my super cute niece Harlow will be two.

Any minute now we're waiting on news of our latest nephew entering this world, it's 3am in the morning there, but kerry won't call and find out! boo {excited much}

My poor Mathias is starting to look like I'm beating him, last week he fell and hit his eye on the corner of my bedroom draw, and this evening he slipped on the steps and cut his lip!

My preperation for fathers day is in motion. last year he got super spoilt so this one is low key. with some cute printables off the internet I'm putting together a selection of treats for kerry and will post photos later.



Monday, August 20, 2012

Baby teeth

Taylah-benet's second baby tooth fell out today right after school while eating an apple.

Monday 20th August 2012 Taylah-Benet's second baby tooth fell out
She is so excited and has written a letter to the tooth fairy {which reminds me....i need to do that}

Sunday, August 19, 2012

Count down is ON!

The count down is on and it is now less than 10 days until my mum and Nana arrive home from their holiday in Europe. My mum and Nana go there once every two years to visit my uncle and his family, and this is the first time we've connected up with them on skype. it's funny that only since this last holiday i had a blond moment and realised i have french cousins, and they are so freakin' cute. Alana, their daughter is about 8 and their handsome little boy Jesse is 4. I can't wait until next year they will all be making the journey over this way to visit. I haven't seen my uncle G in over 8 years and can't wait to meet my gorgeous french cousins!

In other news, we are still awaiting the arrival of Saffrons baby boy {hurry up baby Landon...or baby Hayden? either way we can't wait!} And it's her birthday today HAPPY BIRTHDAY Saffron!! we had a skype date with my beautiful sister in laws today and finally caught miss Riley {auntie Linda's baby girl} awake! she is 8 months and super cute squealing at us through the lap top. 

along with the count down for the return of my mum and Nana, is also my gorgeous niece Harlow's 2nd birthday. my sister is planning a spectacular 'breakfast buffet' for her party and if you've seen the parties she puts together, they just get better and better... Amy Atlas eat your heart out! My sister and my auntie have joined their forces to adventure into the business of event planning/styling and services, head on over to there page HERE to check out all the mouth watering treats!

Taylah-benet had her schools athletic carnival last week which i was excited to attend, she came third in her little race... OK so it was only out of three but who really cares at that age!? she had a great day, and {though it was a little boring} I enjoyed watching her participate.

Mathias is great, still no signs he's ready to take on the toilet training, but I guess I gave up on that one for a little while, I'll try again next school holidays...or maybe Christmas holidays!?

And Carter, I bet your sick of hearing this but he is soooo different from my first two babies. he's so sensitive, sometimes he sleeps through the night, but never without stirring a few times, where I need to at least get up to put his dummy back in. lately this week that hasn't been enough and he has needed a bottle. although he is proving to be my least cooperative little baby, I still can't help but gush over how much I love him! how handsome he is and enjoy every little bit of him! it's like falling in love all over again!

well, that's it from me. have a happy week all Xx

Tuesday, August 14, 2012

kids

I could say I have been busy, but really there is not normally a time when I am not busy. With three kids it was bound to happen. I think it's funny how with each child I have. it makes me think how much easier it was with just one child, then how much easier it was with just two. But really, each have their unique challenges.When I did only have one, I thought it was far from 'easy'! I mean...seriously, if you thought you had any idea how to be a good parent before becoming one, your first born was destined to give you a reality check. My grandmother said to me once that it's a miracle any first Born's survive. These are the children we experience all our 'first's' with in parenting, so if we get it wrong the first time, we can do better with the next one and hope the first one survives. I remember days with just Taylah-benet and I where I would become so overwhelmed I didn't have a clue what to do and yes, days where finding time to shower was a challenge.

Then there were two. Taylah-benet could not have been an any more perfect first child, which is why I feared that karma would catch up with me on my second child. But, believe it or not, Mathias was a text book baby like his big sister, and with Taylah-benet so well behaved, adjusting to two kids didn't seem all that difficult. It wasn't until Mathias' energetic personality emerged that the real challenge arose. I couldn't be more happier to report that we are out of that tunnel.

And now there are three. As you might already know that was a challenge for me to adjust to.

sometimes I wish I could go back to just one child with the things I know now. but it's all part of the journey right? learning, growing, improving. I love being a mum more than anything, and I wouldn't change my journey one bit.

Carter was six months on Monday, the time has just flown by.

Wednesday, August 8, 2012

An aunty again

I am so excited once again to have yet another nephew soon. my beautiful sister in law is about to give birth to her first baby, a boy.



Due any day now, my other {very talanted} sister in law took these gorgeous photos. Makes me wish we lived closer, America is just too far away!! {thank goodness for skype}

Good luck Saffron, you are going to be an awesome momma!

Sunday, August 5, 2012

A Blessing

I love rediscovering the blessings that come from paying tithing, as we all know the challenge it can be.

Yesterday at church our car got a flat tire. I had left sacrament to get Carter's bottle and discovered it. This also happened only about two weeks ago so we had no spare either. And to top it off no money!

The options were to call a family member for help which is hard enough in itself. or {sitting in sacrament} think of who we could ask at church.

Long story short  my husband opted for the latter and a friend from church took him, purchased a tire and helped him put it on the car, then turned down the offer of the little money we did had.

For myself, it is always a humbling experience when we need to ask for help. Quite often it's my own pride that keeps me from asking as I like to think I can do it all on my own. And when I haven't been able to, it's my own fault, and having to ask for help is kind of telling someone else that I wasn't able to take care of my own family.

But I am always surprised when this does happen, and we do ask for help. Members are often all to happy for the opportunity to help and serve.

Last weekend I attended our stakes family history fair, and sitting in one of the classes a sister said something that stood out to me. That it's always important that we are in tune with the spirit and open to the promptings because what we may not realise is that quite often those promptings are answers to someone else's prayers.

What a blessing. I hope that I can be that instrument for someone.

Thursday, August 2, 2012

Do schools kill creativity?

Last week I watched this video produced by TED about an idea. Do schools kill creativity?


Ever since I watched this I keep thinking about my children's own creativity that they have now. How do I encourage and cultivate their creativity? and be confident with themselves? Sometimes I feel I may over think things as a parent, but this one has been on my mind allot lately as I consider myself to be someone with little confidence and I'm always worried about doing, saying or just looking wrong.

I think about people I know who I consider confident and creative and wonder if they consider themselves to be confident people, comfortable with everything about who they are?

I think I can fake it, and my sister often Say's "Fake it til' you make it!"

So my question to all and anyone who reads this is, what did your parents do to encourage your creativity and confidence??

Sunday, July 29, 2012

'The Living Christ' update


Taylah-benet reciting week one and two Xx

Olympic fever

Olympic fever has officially hit the entire planet and why shouldn't it. Why shouldn't we celebrate thousands of people coming together from all walks of life, from all over the world, to compete, watch and enjoy this special event that only happens once every 4 years?

I was a little saddened by the fact that I don't have a TV to watch any of it {and I lack the necessory skills of my husbands to locate those 'illegal' sites that stream it live on the net} in particular the opening ceremony. Oh well, I just reminded myself there will be another one in 4 years I can watch that! Ha!

Thursday 26th July 2012 trip into the city
On Thursday the boys and I went into the city for Mathias's appointment with an Ear, nose and throat specialist. After arriving 20mins early we waited for another hour until we finally got to see the Doctor. He stated the obvious, that he has enlarged tonsils, checked his nose and both his ears. He has 'Glue ear' in both ears which affects his hearing {a concern I gained a while back} which means he'll need a hearing test in about 4 weeks. And as for the snoring and tonsils, he just said to 'see if it gets any better' !?!? I know right! I traveled 45 Min's on a train waited 1 1/2 with my two boys to hear that?!

Ok so I was a little disappointed with the outcome at first. But really, I like to believe that none of it is a waste of time or money because what if had been something bad that needed urgent attention, would it have been anymore worth the trip? I'm not sure where I heard it, but I think there is a saying, that you can attempt something 99 times and fail, but it wasn't a waste of time because you learnt, 99 ways to NOT do it.

While I'm on the topic of Mathias, I think I've finally reached an understanding. I'm not sure if it was him or me that changed anything, but I feel so much more calmer and happier with our relationship and feel I can enjoy having him even more.

I know that being a mother is the toughest job I will ever have, but I also know that it is the most rewarding. Rewarding in a way that I could never fully comprehend.

Friday, July 27, 2012

50 Traditions

So, I mentioned I missed workshop 2 'Traditions' but I did grab her handout which is a list of 50 Christmas traditions/ideas, so here it is;

  1. Have a family picnic one FHE. Invite extended family and friends
  2. Gift for the Saviour - Write down one thing that you will try to do in the coming year. e.g. give more service. Be kinder.
  3. Remember the missionaries. Invite them over for dinner or lunch around Christmas And make a care package for them.
  4. Adopt a tradition from another country or culture.
  5. Invite someone over that you know doesn't have a lot of family around for Christmas lunch.
  6. Write your testimony in the front of a Book of Mormon and give it to a non member family.
  7. Make an advent calender.
  8. Visit the grave site of a loved one passed on.
  9. Wise man game - Hide three wise men in a different spot each day. Have your children find the wise men every day. Each day they get closer and closer to Jesus in a nativity scene.
  10. Write down things that you are grateful for in the past year in your journal.
  11. Have a family testimony meeting and testify about Christ and the things that you are grateful for.
  12. Give each child their favourite piece of fruit in their stocking to remind them to enjoy the simple things in life.
  13. Watch a Christmas movie one FHE or on Christmas eve.
  14. Give a nativity to a family. wrap each piece individually and give a peice each night. On Christmas give them the greatest gift, Jesus.
  15. Watch the 1st presidency Christmas devotional for FHE.
  16. Get the kids to pick some toys they don't play with, and donate them.
  17. Dedicate a FHE to talking about giving, Make a list of people that you could give something to e.g. Cookies sing carols, Christmas hamper, over the month do those things for the people you have suggested.
  18. Invite a non member friend of family to go with you to see the Temple lights.
  19. A FHE talking about Gold, Frankincense and Myrrh.
  20. Wrap up 24 Christmas story books. Each night a child gets to pick a book to unwrap and read.
  21. Invite a family over on Christmas eve for dinner and get the children to act out the nativity.
  22. Have a special candle lit dinner on Christmas eve. Explain that it was in this sort of light that Jesus entered the world. He brought with him a brighter light that we experience today.
  23. Create a scripture tree. A tree filled with verses of scripture that have a name for the saviour e.g. 'bread of life' or 'light of the world'
  24. Have a simple meal on Christmas. talk about the things that you are blessed to have at Christmas.
  25. Go caroling at a nursing home. Take gifts e.g. cookies, care packages.
  26. Have a homemade Christmas.
  27. Pick a couple of families that might be struggling at Christmas time. Make care packages for them and drop them off the week before Christmas. Talk to your children about the importance of giving at Christmas and how they feel when they focus on giving and not receiving.
  28. Read the Christmas story from the scriptures before  opening presents.
  29. Instead of buying gifts for teachers, neighbors, primary teachers, friends, get your children to make them.
  30. Give your gifts on Christmas eve and have a big Christmas Eve dinner. That way Christmas day is about Christ.
  31. Make homemade cards.
  32. Make Christmas Eve just as special and spend that with one set of in-laws. Maybe stay over and have a special breakfast before going and seeing the other half of the family.
  33. Get new pyjamas for the whole family.
  34. Have a family Temple day during December.
  35. Get your children to pick some friends that they would like to go and sing carols to.
  36. Collect your loose change throughout the year and put it in a jar. give that jar to someone/a family that might be struggling during the Christmas season.
  37. Write your children a letter from Santa. With the letter {if they have been good} give them some reindeer dust {glitter} that they can sprinkle on the lawn to show the reindeer where to go.
  38. Make a Christmas decoration or buy a new one each year.
  39. Put one present on your children's/child's bed that they are allowed to open and play with before waking everyone up. This way you might get even a half hour more sleep.
  40. Go for a drive around your local streets and look at the pretty lights that have been put up to decorate houses.
  41. Have Santa come on Christmas night. And have your children open their Santa sacks then. Spend the day talking about Jesus and spending time with family.
  42. Get a family photo to send it to those you don't get to see throughout the year very often. Accompany it with a letter, telling them what you have all been up to.
  43. Got to a local Christmas carol event
  44. Buy a new Christmas CD.
  45. Take a trip into the City and see the pretty lights.
  46. Make popcorn and thread it onto cotton and string it up around the house.
  47. Make your own gift wrap.
  48. Get your children to make Santa some cookies and put them out for him on Christmas Eve with some carrots and water for his reindeer.
  49. Get a photo with Santa.
  50. Go around and look at the shop windows that have been done up for Christmas.
Thank you Hannah! Xx